About Me

Hello Friend! Thank you for stopping by my blog. I’m Becca, a single mama to a teenage girl, doing my best living in LaLaLand. A little background about myself, I was a professional organizer for 18+ years, having started in my career working for an actress. I also have 12 years of experience as a certified Feng Shui consultant. Throughout the years, I discovered the importance of living a happy and well-balanced life. I believe you have to treat your mind, body, and soul with love to obtain true happiness and that age is just a number.

I am so happy you are here so I can share my tips on Self-Love and guide you through the Law of Attraction. So get comfy, grab a cup of hot tea or coffee (I’m a tea girl), and get some ideas to create a happier YOU.

Love ❤️ Becca

Thrive Global — Self-Care in Times of Isolation

uploader magazine — Self-Care in Times of Isolation

uploader magazine article — What is Self-Love

uploader magazine column — Law of Attraction Monthly Column

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#challengeaccepted . You know I’m all about supp

#challengeaccepted
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You know I’m all about supporting other women and having a strong female tribe. But this challenge is more than that.
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It’s for all the countless femicides in Turkey. A sex based hate crime where females are killed simply because they are females. Just the thought of it makes me sick.
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I’ve said this before and will say it over and over again...women are stronger together than apart.
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Thank you l.muriel elenablueblum sweet.p.and.sky and exoticallyrare for nominating me. You are all strong beautiful women and fierce moms. I couldn’t ask to be in better company.
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I challenge all women, of all ages, to post a black and white picture of yourself to stand together on a global scale.
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Only LOVE can win. Love ❤️ Becca
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#womenempowerwomen #onlylovecanwin #femaletribe #womentribe #lamommybloggertribe #strongwomenlifteachotherup #strongwomenraisestrongwomen #femicide #femicideawareness #turkeyfemicide #strongertogetherchallenge #fiercemoms #fiercewomen #lovebecca

Tea Tuesday...🍵 . The July sipsby subscription

Tea Tuesday...🍵
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The July sipsby subscription box is here! This box is filled with comfort teas which I think we can all use right now.
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My July selection is:
🍵 Worry Free by bironteas is a blend of jasmine, lavender, and honey mixed with Western, Ayurvedic, and Chinese herbs. This tea is perfect for relaxing! Use code SIPSBY for 15% off.
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🍵 Me Thyme by tealightfulinc is citrus and guava blended with organic thyme leaves that gives a vitamin c boost and taste delicious. Use code SIPSBY15 for 15% off.
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🍵 Energy Tea by yourtea has green tea, ginseng, tangerine peel, mint, lemon, and lavender for a boost of energy.
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🍵 Mixed Berries & Hibiscus by ahmadtea_usa is a mix of hibiscus flowers, rosehip, apple, blackberry, orange peel, elderberries, blueberries, and raspberries that taste great hot or cold. Use code SIPSBY for 20% off.
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If you’re interested in receiving a box of teas, that you get to customize to your taste from over 150 teas, you need to try Sips by Box. Link in bio.

Monday Mood! ❤️ . Thank you thrive for featuri

Monday Mood! ❤️
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Thank you thrive for featuring my article on Self-Care in Times of Isolation.
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Link is in my bio to read.

Friday Fun... . While in Iowa we stopped by selfie

Friday Fun...
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While in Iowa we stopped by selfiestationiowa for some fun pics! They have a great set up and it’s by appointment so it’s never crowded so social distancing is easy. They even have someone wiping down the stations.
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It was a fun side trip before pageant check in and definitely worth the visit if you are ever in Iowa. I took a few pics that I will post at later dates. These are my favorites of Isabella in her sash and crown.
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Do you like selfie stations?

If you ever wonder if you’re fully healed from y

If you ever wonder if you’re fully healed from your past, this right here is how you can tell if you still need to do the work.
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While the universe cannot exist without darkness or light, it is completely up to us to decide which path to take. And it is not until you are fully healed that you will see that you can no longer see the darkness.
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When your faith in yourself is strong enough, NOTHING can tear it down, or take you back where you came from.
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If there was ever a time to work on self love, it is NOW. You Got This!
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Love ❤️ Becca

Had a great time at the Iowa/Nebraska pageant this

Had a great time at the Iowa/Nebraska pageant this past weekend. NAM did such a great job of social distancing and loved making new friends. 💖

Isabella in her evening gown and production number

Isabella in her evening gown and production number outfit. I might be biased but I think she looks stunning in black.
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As we go into the weekend remember you are STRONGE

As we go into the weekend remember you are STRONGER than you think and more BEAUTIFUL than you know.
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Believe in YOURSELF and screw what anyone else thinks! You are a force, and if they don't get out of your way, let them hear you ROAR!
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You Got This! Love ❤️ Becca

Wisdom Wednesday...I thought now would be a good t

Wisdom Wednesday...I thought now would be a good time to re-post this.
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Embrace your body! What exactly does that mean? It means as babies we are all born with different body shapes. And as we grow our bodies continue to change in different ways. Some of us grow tall and some (like myself) not so much. Some of us have big boobs and some (like myself) not so much. Some of us are skinny with no curves and some of us have extra curves. And for those of us who go through pregnancy our bodies turn in a whole different direction.
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So knowing all this, why is it that we, as women, continue to be so hard on ourselves? What is this obsession over our bodies and what they are “supposed” to look like? Is it the fit and sculpted women we see on magazines? Don’t get me wrong, those women look absolutely amazing. But guess what, they work hard to look that amazing. No one is born with muscles, a six pack and super tight butt.
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Unless you’re willing to put in the work, stop obsessing over these women’s bodies and embrace what you have. I’m not tall and I’m okay with that. I just tell myself the best things come in small packages. I have small breasts and again, I’m okay with that. My whole life I’ve struggled with pants not fitting me right because I have hips and junk in my trunk. But, being a Latina, I’ve learned to love and embrace that part of me as part of my heritage.
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I’ve had a baby, a c-section, gained 42 pounds during my pregnancy and my body never went back to what it was before. Guess what, I’m okay with that. Do you know why? One, I never compare myself to anyone else because I’m not them and never will be so why would I waste my energy on that. Two, you are not your body. Let me repeat that...You Are Not Your Body.
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Your body is just a vehicle and like all vehicles, it comes in different shapes and sizes. And how that vehicle functions really depends on how we take care of the inside. Because the inside of us is truly who we are as human beings.
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So today, ask yourself, who am I? To get you started, if I was to put you inside a box, and know one could see you, how would they describe you? The real you! That’s your assignment today. To discover YOU! ❤️

So this happened... . My daughter, Isabella, got s

So this happened...
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My daughter, Isabella, got spotlighted in the July issue of uploadermagazine. The July issue is all about artists, and when the editor heard about Isabella’s new altered book on the Black Lives Matter movement, she asked if she could spotlight her showcasing Isabella’s latest endeavor.
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Isabella took to heart the events and division going on in our country. Having African American roots on her mom's side and Jewish on her dad's, Isabella is a mix of cultures that are deeply rooted in a history of injustice in human rights.
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Recognizing that it’s up to her generation to create change, she wanted to find a way to do her part. This past year Isabella started creating altered books, taking old books, and transforming them into themed art pieces, some of which explore social justice.
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She has one on Freedom of Religion and another on Child Labor. Her most recent piece is on Black Lives Matter, which she hopes to sell and donate 50% of the proceeds to Black Lives Matter Global Network.
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I’m so proud of her using her creativity to take on an important issue and create something beautiful out of it. Please check out her new handle bellajoybooks and show your support by liking, following, or commissioning a BLM book where 50% of all sales will be donated. You can DM her for more info and pricing.
The July issue of Uploader is now available to purchase and all proceeds will be donated to Black Lives Matter.

Tea Tuesday... . Every month I talk about the new

Tea Tuesday...
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Every month I talk about the new teas I discover but today I want to tell you about a tea/coffee cup set.
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Most of you don’t know but I live in a tiny craftsman bungalow so space is literally sacred especially since I don’t like clutter. 🤣 Scroll to see these adorable tea cups (that can be used for coffee too).
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They are 8 oz cups with matching saucers stacked into a stand making saving space ideal for this mama. They come in different colors but I chose navy because blue is my favorite color and I love how they look against the white. What’s really great about this set is it’s super sturdy, microwaveable and dishwasher safe.
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Drinking tea in these just makes my mornings brighter. Thank you sweese.fans for the adorable set that fits perfectly in my tiny home. ☕️
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Do you have a favorite tea/coffee cup set?

Monday Motivation... . This is a sad but true stat

Monday Motivation...
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This is a sad but true statement. More sad is that most people live their entire existence this way not realizing they can change things. They just have to recognize their value even if it means standing alone.
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Change is scary but it also brings you freedom. As a mother, I strive to show my daughter that as women, we always have a choice on how the world treats us. That’s it’s okay to say no, to walk away, and to start over. That it will always be up to her to decide how the world treats her.
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Women have come a long way but we still have more work to do. Be aware of the women in your life and always support them. Women are the anchors that hold families together but sometimes they forget that they have the right to sail too.
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Let’s be there for each other for we are stronger together.
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Love ❤️ Becca

Most of you know I’m 52, but you may not know is

Most of you know I’m 52, but you may not know is that I’m in full menopause. I have been for two years now. I do not take any hormones and have navigated all the challenges it comes with naturally.
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Now having said that, having “hot flashes” is a bitch. Whether I’m on a date begging him to get me iced water, and asking him if it’s hot in here, and him probably thinking I’m delusional 🤣 to stripping covers and clothes off at night, menopause is not fun.
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So when I came across menolabs and saw that they had developed an all-natural blend of probiotics, prebiotics, herbs, vitamins, and minerals that support premenopause and menopause symptoms, I had to give them a try.
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Ladies, we have a winner! I’m on my third week of taking them and have not had any hot flashes, day or night, for weeks. Do you see the smile on my face??? I’m a happy girl. 😊
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They have different versions, swipe to see some of them. I am taking MenoGlow since it helps with your skin too. They are 100% natural, vegetarian, and hormone-free. They also have a 90-day money-back guarantee, so you really can’t lose.
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This is not an ad, and I’m not getting paid to post this. This is me excited about a product that can hopefully help women who are in that time in their life and looking for a natural relief.
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If you have any questions, you can always send me a DM. And if you end up trying it, I would love to hear how it’s working for you. ❤️

Wisdom Wednesday... . I feel like so many people l

Wisdom Wednesday...
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I feel like so many people lately, with everything going on, are reaching and yearning for things. They are in need. They want.
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What’s the problem with this? The more you need or want something, the more the universe thinks you lack. When you focus on what you lack, the universe ends up giving you more of that feeling.
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Sound cruel? It can be but only if you allow it. Instead of thinking about what you need or want, try being grateful for what you have now. The more gratitude and happiness you show and feel, the more the universe will work harder to bring you more of it.
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You Got This! Love ❤️ Becca

It’s JUNETEENTH. . Education = Progress . In ord

It’s JUNETEENTH.
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Education = Progress
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In order to understand and for change to happen people need to first educate themselves on history. Today is one of those days.
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Thank you blairimani for this insightful post.
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#blacklivesmatter #juneteenth #emancipationday #freedomday #educateyourmind

Now, with so much uncertainty, it’s crucial to c

Now, with so much uncertainty, it’s crucial to clear your mindset so you don’t go falling down the rabbit hole.
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Besides my monthly LOA column, the June issue of uploadermagazine has me featured with my article ”Ideas to Clear Your Mindset.”
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You can download it for free (link in bio) or better yet buy the print version as all proceeds this month go to Black Lives Matter.

Tea Tuesday...🍵 . The June sipsby subscription

Tea Tuesday...🍵
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The June sipsby subscription box is here! This box has some creative teas and I was pleasantly surprised by some of them.
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My June selection was:
🍵 Glow by myteadrop which contains all organic ingredients like cinnamon, hibiscus powder, cherry powder and a dash of cinnamon. While this was not my favorite, I am still a huge fan of their other flavors. Use code SIPSBY for 20% off.
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🍵 Vanilla Oolong Grape Moringa Energy by miracletreetea is high in caffeine making it a perfect coffee replacement. It gives you the energy boost you need without crashing and I have to add that it taste delicious. Use code SIPSBY for 20% off.
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🍵 Tulsi Ashwagandha by organicindiausa is known as “The Queen of Herbs” and now I know why. I have never heard of these herbs before but they taste so good. Will definitely buy this again. Use code SIPSBY2020 for 20% off.
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🍵 Tropical Green by wightteaco is made with a medley of green tea, apricot, mango, papaya, apple and lemon. Perfect for summer. Use code SIPSBY for 15% off.
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If you’re interested in receiving a box of teas, that you get to customize to your taste from over 150 teas, you need to try Sips by Box. Link is in bio.

‘Uploader Magazine’ June issue just got releas

‘Uploader Magazine’ June issue just got released! I am happy to say all proceeds from the June issue will go back to the Black Lives Matter Foundation. Much respect to the fabulous editor cherylandmore for waiting to release the issue to create space for black voices to be heard.
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Also, there’s a great article from my friend Naza, sweet.p.and.sky, on why Mother’s of Children of Color Pray Differently that you should check out.
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In this months column I answer your questions about losing weight and how to get back to feeling good when you feel out of alignment.
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I am taking questions for next month's issue. You can send any question(s) you have regarding the law of attraction/manifesting to hello@uploadermagazine.com. And don’t worry about your name in it, you can always stay anonymous.
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Happy Reading!
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Love ❤️ Becca

“Be the reason someone smiles today.” ❤️ B

“Be the reason someone smiles today.” ❤️ Becca
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This little guy here makes me smile everyday. 🐶 😀

Wednesday Wisdom... . These words cannot be more t

Wednesday Wisdom...
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These words cannot be more true than now. We all have an opportunity to do things better for the sake of humanity. 2020 is the year to find it.
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Let’s Do Better!

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