About Me

Hello Friend! Thank you for stopping by my blog. I’m Becca, a single mama to a teenage girl, doing my best living in LaLaLand. A little background about myself, I was a professional organizer for 18+ years, having started in my career working for an actress. I also have 12 years of experience as a certified Feng Shui consultant. Throughout the years, I discovered the importance of living a happy and well-balanced life. I believe you have to treat your mind, body, and soul with love to obtain true happiness and that age is just a number.

I am so happy you are here so I can share my tips on Self-Love and guide you through the Law of Attraction. So get comfy, grab a cup of hot tea or coffee (I’m a tea girl), and get some ideas to create a happier YOU.

Love ❤️ Becca

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So this happened... . My daughter, Isabella, got s

So this happened...
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My daughter, Isabella, got spotlighted in the July issue of uploadermagazine. The July issue is all about artists, and when the editor heard about Isabella’s new altered book on the Black Lives Matter movement, she asked if she could spotlight her showcasing Isabella’s latest endeavor.
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Isabella took to heart the events and division going on in our country. Having African American roots on her mom's side and Jewish on her dad's, Isabella is a mix of cultures that are deeply rooted in a history of injustice in human rights.
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Recognizing that it’s up to her generation to create change, she wanted to find a way to do her part. This past year Isabella started creating altered books, taking old books, and transforming them into themed art pieces, some of which explore social justice.
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She has one on Freedom of Religion and another on Child Labor. Her most recent piece is on Black Lives Matter, which she hopes to sell and donate 50% of the proceeds to Black Lives Matter Global Network.
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I’m so proud of her using her creativity to take on an important issue and create something beautiful out of it. Please check out her new handle bellajoybooks and show your support by liking, following, or commissioning a BLM book where 50% of all sales will be donated. You can DM her for more info and pricing.
The July issue of Uploader is now available to purchase and all proceeds will be donated to Black Lives Matter.

Tea Tuesday... . Every month I talk about the new

Tea Tuesday...
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Every month I talk about the new teas I discover but today I want to tell you about a tea/coffee cup set.
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Most of you don’t know but I live in a tiny craftsman bungalow so space is literally sacred especially since I don’t like clutter. 🤣 Scroll to see these adorable tea cups (that can be used for coffee too).
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They are 8 oz cups with matching saucers stacked into a stand making saving space ideal for this mama. They come in different colors but I chose navy because blue is my favorite color and I love how they look against the white. What’s really great about this set is it’s super sturdy, microwaveable and dishwasher safe.
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Drinking tea in these just makes my mornings brighter. Thank you sweese.fans for the adorable set that fits perfectly in my tiny home. ☕️
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Do you have a favorite tea/coffee cup set?

Monday Motivation... . This is a sad but true stat

Monday Motivation...
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This is a sad but true statement. More sad is that most people live their entire existence this way not realizing they can change things. They just have to recognize their value even if it means standing alone.
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Change is scary but it also brings you freedom. As a mother, I strive to show my daughter that as women, we always have a choice on how the world treats us. That’s it’s okay to say no, to walk away, and to start over. That it will always be up to her to decide how the world treats her.
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Women have come a long way but we still have more work to do. Be aware of the women in your life and always support them. Women are the anchors that hold families together but sometimes they forget that they have the right to sail too.
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Let’s be there for each other for we are stronger together.
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Love ❤️ Becca

Most of you know I’m 52, but you may not know is

Most of you know I’m 52, but you may not know is that I’m in full menopause. I have been for two years now. I do not take any hormones and have navigated all the challenges it comes with naturally.
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Now having said that, having “hot flashes” is a bitch. Whether I’m on a date begging him to get me iced water, and asking him if it’s hot in here, and him probably thinking I’m delusional 🤣 to stripping covers and clothes off at night, menopause is not fun.
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So when I came across menolabs and saw that they had developed an all-natural blend of probiotics, prebiotics, herbs, vitamins, and minerals that support premenopause and menopause symptoms, I had to give them a try.
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Ladies, we have a winner! I’m on my third week of taking them and have not had any hot flashes, day or night, for weeks. Do you see the smile on my face??? I’m a happy girl. 😊
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They have different versions, swipe to see some of them. I am taking MenoGlow since it helps with your skin too. They are 100% natural, vegetarian, and hormone-free. They also have a 90-day money-back guarantee, so you really can’t lose.
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This is not an ad, and I’m not getting paid to post this. This is me excited about a product that can hopefully help women who are in that time in their life and looking for a natural relief.
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If you have any questions, you can always send me a DM. And if you end up trying it, I would love to hear how it’s working for you. ❤️

Wisdom Wednesday... . I feel like so many people l

Wisdom Wednesday...
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I feel like so many people lately, with everything going on, are reaching and yearning for things. They are in need. They want.
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What’s the problem with this? The more you need or want something, the more the universe thinks you lack. When you focus on what you lack, the universe ends up giving you more of that feeling.
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Sound cruel? It can be but only if you allow it. Instead of thinking about what you need or want, try being grateful for what you have now. The more gratitude and happiness you show and feel, the more the universe will work harder to bring you more of it.
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You Got This! Love ❤️ Becca

It’s JUNETEENTH. . Education = Progress . In ord

It’s JUNETEENTH.
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Education = Progress
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In order to understand and for change to happen people need to first educate themselves on history. Today is one of those days.
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Thank you blairimani for this insightful post.
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#blacklivesmatter #juneteenth #emancipationday #freedomday #educateyourmind

Now, with so much uncertainty, it’s crucial to c

Now, with so much uncertainty, it’s crucial to clear your mindset so you don’t go falling down the rabbit hole.
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Besides my monthly LOA column, the June issue of uploadermagazine has me featured with my article ”Ideas to Clear Your Mindset.”
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You can download it for free (link in bio) or better yet buy the print version as all proceeds this month go to Black Lives Matter.

Tea Tuesday...🍵 . The June sipsby subscription

Tea Tuesday...🍵
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The June sipsby subscription box is here! This box has some creative teas and I was pleasantly surprised by some of them.
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My June selection was:
🍵 Glow by myteadrop which contains all organic ingredients like cinnamon, hibiscus powder, cherry powder and a dash of cinnamon. While this was not my favorite, I am still a huge fan of their other flavors. Use code SIPSBY for 20% off.
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🍵 Vanilla Oolong Grape Moringa Energy by miracletreetea is high in caffeine making it a perfect coffee replacement. It gives you the energy boost you need without crashing and I have to add that it taste delicious. Use code SIPSBY for 20% off.
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🍵 Tulsi Ashwagandha by organicindiausa is known as “The Queen of Herbs” and now I know why. I have never heard of these herbs before but they taste so good. Will definitely buy this again. Use code SIPSBY2020 for 20% off.
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🍵 Tropical Green by wightteaco is made with a medley of green tea, apricot, mango, papaya, apple and lemon. Perfect for summer. Use code SIPSBY for 15% off.
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If you’re interested in receiving a box of teas, that you get to customize to your taste from over 150 teas, you need to try Sips by Box. Link is in bio.

‘Uploader Magazine’ June issue just got releas

‘Uploader Magazine’ June issue just got released! I am happy to say all proceeds from the June issue will go back to the Black Lives Matter Foundation. Much respect to the fabulous editor cherylandmore for waiting to release the issue to create space for black voices to be heard.
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Also, there’s a great article from my friend Naza, sweet.p.and.sky, on why Mother’s of Children of Color Pray Differently that you should check out.
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In this months column I answer your questions about losing weight and how to get back to feeling good when you feel out of alignment.
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I am taking questions for next month's issue. You can send any question(s) you have regarding the law of attraction/manifesting to hello@uploadermagazine.com. And don’t worry about your name in it, you can always stay anonymous.
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Happy Reading!
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Love ❤️ Becca

“Be the reason someone smiles today.” ❤️ B

“Be the reason someone smiles today.” ❤️ Becca
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This little guy here makes me smile everyday. 🐶 😀

Wednesday Wisdom... . These words cannot be more t

Wednesday Wisdom...
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These words cannot be more true than now. We all have an opportunity to do things better for the sake of humanity. 2020 is the year to find it.
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Let’s Do Better!

If you want to change, you have to be willing to b

If you want to change, you have to be willing to be uncomfortable. All week I have been searching for the right word. Upon reflection, I discovered it was “uncomfortable” that I was looking for.
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When I was married (my ex-husband is white), I remember every time we bought a house, I only looked in diverse neighborhoods. I refused to live in a predominantly white area. Why? Because it made me uncomfortable.
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We, as humans, tend to stick to what we know, which makes us feel comfortable. And we like it. It makes us feel safe. But feeling safe keeps us exactly where we are, for you cannot learn, grow or change unless you feel uncomfortable.
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I got to spend a lot of time with my daughter discussing the events going on in the U.S. She’s been having a hard time understanding. She’s been raised around mostly Latin and African American adults. Not because I don’t have white friends but because it’s who I feel more “comfortable” around.
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A couple of years ago, we visited the high school that my daughter now goes to. She did a summer program there, and I remember her saying, “there’s not a lot of white girls here.” That was my aha moment. My daughter had been around so many non-ethnic girls that she was not only forgetting that she’s half Latin, but was feeling “uncomfortable” because she didn’t look like the other girls, and that’s when I noticed she didn’t have non-white friends.
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I realized I was doing a disservice to her having her in a predominantly white school, and we made the switch. I wanted her to be around girls who looked at life through another perspective, I wanted her to get in touch with her Latin roots, and I wanted her to learn to be comfortable with the uncomfortable. It has been the best choice for her, and I have seen her grow in so many ways.
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While none of us are born with prejudice in our heart, I realize it’s too easy not to see what we don’t want to see, when we keep ourselves safe. We need to look at our lives and see where it is that we feel most uncomfortable and try going there. We will never change as a nation as long as we stay comfortable because change never comes from staying in our comfort zone. .
Love ❤️ Becca

It’s Monday Motivation, and yet there’s not mu

It’s Monday Motivation, and yet there’s not much motivation for me today.
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I decided to post a serious pic because smiling doesn’t feel right. Nothing feels right.
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I grew up with a black grandmother, lived in a black neighborhood, and went to a predominantly black school. I always felt safe and never threatened.
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I remember the Miami riots in the 80s started by injustice involving the police. In high school I recall my friend crying when she saw her car had been keyed with the words KKK on the hood. The KKK hung my other friend's brother. This was over 35 years ago.
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When I moved to Cali and had a job as a 911 operator and police dispatcher for LAPD, I worked the evening of the Rodney King beating and all through the riots.
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Fast forward to the last few years, past couple of months, and past week, and I feel disheartened that nothing has changed. I feel sick to my stomach that I have friends who fear for their husbands and sons lives.
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I wrote some words (swipe to read) and have decided it’s going to be my only post for this week. It’s all I can muster in these sad times.
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I wish everyone love and peace. Stay safe.
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Love 💔 Becca

Wayfair has got what you need and things you didn’t know you needed. 🤷🏻‍♀️
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I love these two pieces together. They are simple classic pieces that go with everything, and the elements give off good energy into a home.
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Would you put these inside or outside your home?
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Screenshot this pic to get product details with the liketoknow.it shopping app http://liketk.it/2PN9W
or click on the link in my bio for my Favorite Finds.

TRUST THE VIBES YOU GET, ENERGY DOESN’T LIE. 💫
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How many of you feel your energy zapped when you’re around certain people?
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I can walk into a room and know precisely who to gravitate towards and who to stay away from. That’s how strong people’s energy is, and how quickly they can drain you if you let them.
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If you’re feeling this way, know that most of the time, it isn’t you, but the company you keep.
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For this reason alone, I only allow certain people in my circle and everyone else I just wave from far away.👋🏼 Seriously, ask my friends. 🤣
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Access to your energy should be a privilege, and anyone who does not understand that should be a clue for you to stay away.
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If you find yourself in a family situation, then try to limit the time spent, so you have a chance to re-energize. Remember, your mental health comes first, and there’s nothing selfish about that.
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You Got This! Love ❤️ Becca

For today’s Wisdom Wednesday, I thought I would

For today’s Wisdom Wednesday, I thought I would formally introduce myself since a lot of you don’t know me personally.
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My name is Rebecca, but I also go by Becca and Becky (my childhood name). I was born in California but raised in Miami. Miami never felt home to me, so when I was 22, I packed up my Volkswagen Jetta, left my family and friends, and drove to Cali and never looked back.
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It was the best decision I ever made. I knew that if I wanted to be happy, I would have to take risks, not be afraid, and embrace change, which I did boldly.
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But along the way, the one thing I forgot to do was trust my gut. It’s the one thing the universe gives us to lead us in the right direction. It's a powerful gift, but not one I fully understood, and would continuously brush it aside. At the time, I did not realize it was trying to protect me, but we mortals tend to think we know what's best for us.
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It took being bullied in high school (to the point I needed a bodyguard), to finding and losing my soul mate (but then was he really my soul mate 🤔), 15 years of dealing with someone else's issues, a divorce, countless dates, and a financial setback to discover that every answer I have ever needed was right inside of me.
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I remember the day so clearly. It was as if a light bulb had clicked, and everything started to make sense. All my years of consuming knowledge of how the universe works came together in an instant and completely changed my life and path.
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Fast forward to today, at 52, I am healthy, confident, balanced, brave, vibrant, sexy, and have never been happier. I feel better than I ever did in my 20s, 30s, and even 40s. I am living my best life, doing what I love, and am continually experiencing miracles.
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I love sharing with you what I have discovered. As Ram Dass said, ”Each of us finds his unique vehicle for sharing with others his bit of wisdom.”
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With gratitude, thank you for your support and for allowing me into your life. Let's be a community of love and light, continuing to lift each other up.
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Love ❤️ Becca

Tea Tuesday...🍵 . I look forward to receiving m

Tea Tuesday...🍵
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I look forward to receiving my sipsby subscription box every month. During this time of isolation comforting teas are just what I need.
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My May selection was:
🍵 Organic North African Mint
🍵 White Peach Oolong
🍵 Mango & Lychee Green Tea
🍵 Citrus Spice Herbal Tea
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Organic North African Mint by davidstea contains mint, ginger, and fennel which is perfect after a meal. Use code SIPS-BY-DAVIDSTEA for 20% off.
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White Peach Oolong by stashtea is refreshing and has fresh, sweet flavors of white peach. Use code SIPSFREESHIP for free shipping on orders $20+.
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Mango & Lychee Green Tea by ahmadtea_usa is delicious hot or cold. Fun fact: They supply tea for Buckingham Palace. Use code SIPSBY for 20% off.
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Citrus Spice Herbal Tea by revolution_tea is made with a medley of rooibos, lemon peel, orange peel, cloves, cinnamon, and other herbs and spices. You’ll love the fragrance. Use code SIPSBY15 for 15% off.
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If you’re interested in receiving a box of teas, that you get to customize to your taste from over 150 teas, you need to try Sips by Box. Link is in bio.

Look at these pretty finds from Target. 🎯 Perfe

Look at these pretty finds from Target. 🎯 Perfect for your outdoor space since we will be spending a lot of time at home this summer. ☀️
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Screenshot this pic to get product details with the LIKEtoKNOW.it shopping app http://liketk.it/2PpeG
or click on link in bio for my Favorite Finds. liketoknow.it

Thursday Mood! 💗

Thursday Mood! 💗

Wednesday Wisdom... . As we start midway into anot

Wednesday Wisdom...
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As we start midway into another week, that seems the same as the last countless weeks remember one thing.
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You are the actor, writer, and director of your own life. Your Life Only. Not your significant other or even your kids. They have their own life to create, so stop trying to control what isn't yours to begin with.
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Learn to let go and let them walk their path and create their movie. More importantly, DO NOT allow someone else to write your life story.
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Are you creating the movie you want to see?
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You Got This! Love ❤️ Becca

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