About Me

Hello Friend! Thank you for stopping by my blog. I’m Becca, a single mama to a teenage girl, doing my best living in LaLaLand. A little background about myself, I was a professional organizer for 18+ years, having started in my career working for an actress. I also have 12 years of experience as a certified Feng Shui consultant. Throughout the years, I discovered the importance of living a happy and well-balanced life. I believe you have to treat your mind, body, and soul with love to obtain true happiness and that age is just a number.

I am so happy you are here so I can share my tips on Self-Love and guide you through the Law of Attraction. So get comfy, grab a cup of hot tea or coffee (I’m a tea girl), and get some ideas to create a happier YOU.

Love ❤️ Becca

Thrive Global — Self-Care in Times of Isolation

uploader magazine — Self-Care in Times of Isolation

uploader magazine article — What is Self-Love

uploader magazine column — Law of Attraction Monthly Column

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Self Love 💝 | Law of Attraction 💫
“I don’t have time to hate...
only time to love.”💕
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The September issue of uploadermagazine is out and

The September issue of uploadermagazine is out and so is this month’s LOA column where I answer the question of why when someone starts manifesting good things into their life, it suddenly stops happening for them.
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Also featured on the cover is chris_lavoie_official , the creator of Amazon Prime’s The Social Movement and 4 Days to Change the World, a docu-series created to help solve social issues.
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If you have a manifesting or law of attraction question for me you can send it to hello@uploadermagazine.com. I’m always happy to help you discover your manifesting powers. 💫
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Link is in bio.

Tuesday Tip... . I know right now everyone is tryi

Tuesday Tip...
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I know right now everyone is trying to stay healthy. Even though I find it ironic that people are looking to get healthy now, but I always say things happen for a reason. It’s called a wake-up call!
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I have pretty much lived a healthy life for the past 19 years, but even so, I still suffered from asthma.
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That is until I discovered the power of turmeric, which has helped with inflammation so much that I don’t have to use an inhaler every day.
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I recently discovered this power pack that has over 700mg of turmeric but also 500mg of vitamin C, ginger, and black pepper. Black pepper is the magic behind turmeric working in the body.
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That’s a shot of immune system and inflammation-fighting antioxidants in one little packet. Easy to drink, hot or cold, with a kick that lets you know it’s working.
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With flu season around the corner, taking care of our bodies is more important now than ever.
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Thank you rylawellness for this amazing plant-based immune support made with organic superfoods. 🌱

Monday Motivation... . People think they have to b

Monday Motivation...
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People think they have to be positive and happy 24/7 to manifest their ideal life. But the law of attraction doesn’t work that way.
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It’s about recognizing that you are not using your power to it’s highest good and doing something about it.
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With all the million thoughts in the world, why would you not choose a good one? No matter what is going on with the outside world, that you have no control over, you do have control over what’s going on inside of you.
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Wishing everyone happy thoughts as you start the week.
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You Got This! Love ❤️ Becca

Monday you can fall apart Tuesday, Wednesday break

Monday you can fall apart
Tuesday, Wednesday break my heart
Thursday doesn’t even start
It’s Friday I’m in love. 🎵
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Wishing everyone a Fabulous Friday! 💫

The weekend is here, and this is just a reminder t

The weekend is here, and this is just a reminder that sometimes you have to let things go and trust the universe. ❤️💫
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#fridayishere #fridaythoughts #fridayfeelings #weekendmotivation #weekendgoals #letthingsgo #trusttheuniverse #universehasyourback #fridaywisdom #midlifewisdom #midlifewomen #midlifemom #livelifelovelife #lovebecca #mindsetiseverything #mindsetmatters #mindsetiskey #trustintheuniverse

How’s 2020 been for you so far? . I have to say,

How’s 2020 been for you so far?
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I have to say, even with everything going on in the world right now, this has been a great year for us. Not just because of all the small and big miracles that have come our way but because we have learned so much this year.
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One of those lessons has been not to squander this idle time the universe has given to us but instead embrace it and make the most of it.
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We all have the power to make this a great year; all you have to do is claim it as so. Tell the universe what you want, claim it to be yours already (with all the feels), and stay in that vibration.
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Remember, you will only get what you believe you can have, and what you can have is endless.
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Love ❤️ Becca

Proceed with caution...It’s National Women’s E

Proceed with caution...It’s National Women’s Equality Day, and I have something to say about it.
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As a mother to a teenage girl, there is nothing more important to me than for her to learn that while men have ruled the world pretty much since the beginning of time does not mean men are better, smarter, or more powerful than women. It merely means that there’s a problem with gender equality.
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While we celebrate 100 years of women being able to vote, let’s not forget that it took 70 years of activism to accomplish it. And...that it took even longer for women of color to vote.
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Now we find ourselves fighting for equal pay and respect in the workplace. How can we help? First, make sure you vote this November. I don’t care who you vote for as long as you honor those who fought so hard to give us this right. Second, support women entrepreneurs. There’s nothing more powerful than women supporting women. Third, to all the fathers of sons please teach them that girls are not inferior to boys.
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Ruth Bader Ginsburg said it ideally, “Women will only have true equality when men share with them the responsibility of bringing up the next generation.”
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The end goal is not for women to have power over men but to recognize how powerful we can be when we stand together!
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Love ❤️ Becca

Tea Tuesday...🍵 . The August sipsby subscriptio

Tea Tuesday...🍵
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The August sipsby subscription box is here and it’s filled with refreshing teas perfect for summer.
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My August selection is:
🍵 Citrus Rose Té by thetespa is a delicious blend of sweet citrus and rose. It’s infused with rose petals, orange peel, lemon balm, lavender, and goji berries. Use code SIPSBY for 20% off.
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🍵 Royal Empress Oolong by thewhiteheronfl is a refreshing floral oolong with a creamy finish. Use code SIPSBY15 for 15% off.
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🍵 Organic Rooibos Tea by myredteaco is a caffeine-free antioxidant rich rooibos that taste great hot or cold. You can also use it in your bath to soothe your skin. Use code SIPSBY20 for 20% off.
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🍵 Moroccan Mint by stashtea is one of my favorite brands. They have a great selection of teas and this one is a blend of green tea, mint, and a hint of lemon. Use code SIPSBY for 20% off.
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If you’re interested in receiving a box of teas monthly, that you get to customize to your taste from over 150 teas, you need to try Sips by Box. They make great gifts for tea lovers! Link in bio.

First day of remote learning has officially begun.

First day of remote learning has officially begun. While we are sad that it’s not in person we are grateful for getting back to our routine.
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This summer has been crazy and unpredictable but at least a new school year creates a sense of stability. It’s not perfect but I will take it!
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How are you and your kids handling the new school year?

Call me (call me) on the line Call me, call me any

Call me (call me) on the line
Call me, call me any, anytime
Call me (call me) I’ll arrive
You can call me any day or night
Call me 📞
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Who else loved this song back in the day?

So if you’ve been waiting for the Nordstrom Anni

So if you’ve been waiting for the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale to finally go public, TODAY is the day!
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I look forward to this sale twice a year as I always find one, two, or many more items that I love. 🙋🏻‍♀️
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Scroll to see these shoes I just got and check out some more of my favorites in my bio or with the LIKEtoKNOW.it shopping app.
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Do you have any favorite sales?

Isabella has had the pleasure of being the Nationa

Isabella has had the pleasure of being the National American Miss California Jr. Teen Cover Girl this past year. Besides all of her volunteering, she’s also enjoyed her time with the California queens and the sisterhood they have formed.
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It’s been an incredible year for her, and while she still holds the title of National Cover Miss for a few more months, today she says goodbye to her Cover Girl title.
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You can view her farewell letter thenamcacovergirl. 💖

The NAM South Texas is a wrap! . Congratulations t

The NAM South Texas is a wrap!
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Congratulations to the new queens. 👑 We can’t wait to see you at Nationals. 💖
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#nationalamericanmiss #southtexaspageant #southtexas #texaspageant #pageantlife #pageantgirl #pageantmom #pageantmoments #nationalspageant #girlwithdreams #buildingconfidence #pageantrywithapurpose #positivepageantry

Having a fabulous time at the National American Mi

Having a fabulous time at the National American Miss South Texas Pageant.
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nationalamericanmiss is doing an amazing job of following safety protocols and keeping everyone safe while still being able to have fun!
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Scroll to see some of the pics!

This is the look my dogs give me when they see me

This is the look my dogs give me when they see me packing. Talk about making me feel guilty! 😂
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Do your dogs do this when they see you pull out the suitcase?

Let's have some fun this Monday! If I were a hasht

Let's have some fun this Monday! If I were a hashtag, what would it be? #
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#hashtagpost #ifiwereahashtag #mondayfun #newweeknewstart #selfiestationiowa #hashtagthis
#midlifeblogger #midlifemom #midlifewomen #over50blogger
#50plus #betterafter50 #instagramover50 #overfifty #fabulousover50 #fabulousafter50 #lovebecca #mondaythoughts #mondaymuse

It’s been a dog's life these past few months, an

It’s been a dog's life these past few months, and they love all the attention, especially all the dog walks.
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This guy here gets super excited, jumps all over the place, and always pulls on his walks no matter what kind of leash I use. He’s going to be ten years old next month and still acts like he’s 1. 😂
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I recently started using the docopet Athletica Net Mesh Quick Fit Harness on him, and it’s been a game-changer. I love the light breathable material, comfort, and quality of it, and my dog seems to love it and is calmer on his walks.
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They come in different colors and sizes. The red was my favorite, and XL was the perfect size fit. My friends know how much I love my dogs, so I’m always looking for quality products, and this is one of them.
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Drop an emoji if your furry friend has been enjoying all this extra time with them. 🐶

There’s a lot of bad in the world, but there’s

There’s a lot of bad in the world, but there’s also a lot of hope.
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The thing is you can only focus on one of them at a time. The decision is always going to be yours, no matter your circumstance or surrounding. You get to choose which one you want to focus on.
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As the weekend is here, ask yourself which one YOU choose to focus on today, tomorrow, and every day of whatever time you have left here on this earth.
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I don’t know about you, but I just don’t have the time or energy but to focus on anything besides HOPE. 💫
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Love ❤️ Becca

Wisdom Wednesday... . I am not like everyone else.

Wisdom Wednesday...
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I am not like everyone else. I don’t pretend to be and I definitely don’t want to be. I am simply ME.
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Being your authentic self isn’t easy and it takes years of practice and lots of saying NO. But if you do the work, learn from your lessons, not beat yourself up for all the mistakes you’ve made, and trust the universe you will come out stronger, wiser, hopeful, and happier.
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If you still haven’t learned the big lessons from these past few months, then at least try to inhale and exhale these words...Don’t Worry, Be Happy...because life is too short and time goes by too fast to be anything else.
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Love 💛 Becca

‘Uploader Magazine’ August issue is out, and i

‘Uploader Magazine’ August issue is out, and it features the talented Riley Smith on the cover!
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Also, inside is my monthly LOA column, where I answer the question of why some people manifest the same type of guy/girl. If you find yourself doing it, there’s a reason for it.
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As usual, I am taking questions for next month's issue. You can send any question(s) you have regarding the law of attraction/manifesting to hello@uploadermagazine.com. And don’t worry about your name in it, you can always stay anonymous.
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Happy Reading! Love ❤️ Becca

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