As we enter the second month of 2023, I thought I’d answer a frequently asked question. What is the one piece of advice I would give someone about how to attain happiness? While several things come to mind, one stands out above the rest. Giving yourself grace and loving yourself is the best way to start the new year. When it comes to the Law of Attraction, you can’t set an intention, manifest it, or be in vibrational alignment unless you love yourself enough to recognize that you deserve so much more. It all starts with self-love and is the key to happiness.
When you are in vibrational alignment with your feelings, the Law of Attraction works. It will be more difficult to manifest if you do not practice self-love because you will be coming from a place of want and need rather than allowing things to happen organically. Self-love creates freedom within ourselves, allowing good things to enter our lives.
The new year can bring on self-doubt as many people make resolutions to lose weight, find a new job, or find that special someone. This causes you to focus on what you don’t have, resulting in a negative state. The more we concentrate on what we don’t have, the less we attract.
When you put yourself first, on the other hand, you create a powerful vibrational alignment of love without judgment. This love attracts additional love. If you’re unsure how to proceed, imagine how you would treat someone you care about and recreate that scenario for yourself. Instead of waiting for someone else to do it, treat yourself. Self-worth begins and ends with you.
Once you’ve reached a state of vibrational alignment, sit down and write down some goals. Simply ensure that they are attainable. I always tell people to start with small goals because they are easier to achieve, and the fact that you achieved them creates the positive vibrations you require to receive more.
The last two years have been difficult, but 2023 does not have to be. Begin this year by making a list of ways to incorporate self-love into your daily routine. Start small and gradually build on it to avoid feeling overwhelmed. The more you prioritize yourself, the happier you will be, and happiness spreads. This year, show yourself some self-love and allow the key to happiness to enter! If you’re looking to manifest a partner into your life, read How To Manifest Love Into Your Life.
“Your soul will never be fully nourished by anyone’s love but your own.” – Domine